Healing for Adult Survivors of Childhood Abuse

Childhood abuse can leave wounds that follow us long after childhood ends. Fear, shame, and painful memories often shape the way we see ourselves, our relationships, and the world around us. Yet our past does not have to determine our future.

I know this journey because I have walked it myself.

Abuse Journal is a place of hope for adult survivors of childhood abuse and domestic violence. Through personal stories, practical guidance, faith-filled encouragement, and healing resources, my desire is to help others move beyond the pain of yesterday and discover the freedom that healing makes possible.

No matter where you are on your journey, you are not alone. Healing is possible, hope is real, and even the deepest wounds can become part of a story of restoration.

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    Domestic violence leaves survivors with questions that don’t disappear overnight. Some questions come immediately after the abuse ends. Others surface months or even years later as healing begins. I know because I asked many of these same questions myself. After surviving more than three years of domestic violence, I spent years trying to understand what had happened, why it happened, and whether healing was truly…

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  • Abuse Journal Is Now Available for Pre-Order

    For years, Abuse Journal has been more than a blog. It has been a place to reflect on the realities of childhood abuse, domestic violence, faith, forgiveness, and the long journey toward healing. What began as personal writings during my own recovery has grown into a collection of lessons, reflections, and hope shared with readers around the world. I’m grateful to announce that Abuse Journal:…

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  • After Ten Years, The Secret Darkness Is Complete

    As you may know, I started writing on Tumblr to release the anguish of abuse—all the pain buried for years. Why Did You Start a Reflective Life Writing a Blog At first, the memories came in bits and pieces—scattered reflections of childhood, broken relationships, and living in fear. The more I wrote, the more memories spilled onto the page, as tears flowed for the first…

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  • When Secrets Come to Light

    There are moments in life when we look back and realize that God was working long before we understood what He was doing. When I registered Abuse Journal on October 5, 2020, I thought I was creating a website to encourage other survivors of childhood abuse and domestic violence. As a self-taught website developer, I enjoyed building websites, but I had no idea how deeply…

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